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Happiness and unhappiness
Happiness. Aristotle said it was the final end toward which
all men endeavor, the greatest good for man. What is
happiness? Where is it found? How is it achieved? This
question is closely related to the question of unhappiness,
what unhappiness is and what causes it. In fact a man cannot
be happy if he is unhappy and we can perhaps define happiness
as the "absence of unhappiness". Unhappiness is very prevalent
in this world. Most people, at different times in their lives,
meet with it. What are the sources of unhappiness in this
life? Let us list some:
- mistreatment, abuse and oppression by our fellow man (i.e.
abuse inflicted by those in authority over us)
- misfortune (i.e. being struck by some disease, loss of a
loved one, etc.)
- mental or emotional problems
- boredom, listlessness, loneliness, depression
How can we minimize the amount of unhappiness we suffer in life
(and thus maximize the amount of happiness we obtain from
life)? What strategies can we use to minimize our pain and
misery from each of the above listed sources of unhappiness?
Well, in the case of the first one listed, abuse and oppression
by our fellow man, one thing that we can do to minimize the
chances of abuse from a boss is to seek self-reliance and
independence. We can save money, reduce our material wants and
needs and go to self-employment or independent country living.
If one is under someone who is abusing him he may, in some way,
be able to get out from under that person and away from that
situation. In the case of the second source of unhappiness
listed, misfortune, one thing you can do is take care of your
health through proper eating, getting sufficient exercise and
pursuing a low-stress lifestyle. In the case of the third
source of unhappiness, mental and emotional problems, one can
make one's first priority in life the rejection of sin and
foolishness and a commitment to a life of Honesty, Decency,
Goodness, Virtue and Moral Principle (i.e. a commitment to the
right set of values). Also, one can establish good ground
rules and habits for his life such as non-drinking, non-
smoking, etc..
Apr 1985
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