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What is the cost to our society of the sexual immorality that
is so pervasive in it? Let us list some of the costs:
1. The cost for treatment of sexually transmitted diseases such
as gonorrhea, syphilis and AIDS. The bill for AIDS is in the
billions and growing rapidly. And we are all paying for it,
directly or indirectly, through taxes, increased insurance
premiums, etc..
2. The costs attendant to supporting illegitimate children.
The typical illegitimate child ends up being supported by the
welfare system in some way. That means we are paying the tab
for his rearing through our tax dollars. And we are not only
paying to support him but also his mother in most cases (if
he is being raised by his mother). And there are other costs
brought onto us by illegitimate children. An illegitimate
child is likely to be an emotionally scarred and deprived
child. He is likely to grow up in poverty and be angry and
delinquent. So we have to add on all the costs attendant to
juvenile deliquincy: costs of his crimes against society,
costs of additional police forces, counseling costs, lawyer
fees, court costs, costs of retention facilities, etc..
3. The costs attendant to marital infidelity. Marital
infidelity usually causes problems in marriages and there are
costs attendant to this: Counseling costs, legal costs
attendant to separation and divorce, increased medical costs
due to the emotional stresses produced, costs attendant to
rebellious children, etc.
So far we have talked only of the dollar costs to society of
sexual immorality. What about the cost in terms of human
suffering? What about all the suffering that is produced from
sexually transmitted diseases? What about all of the suffering
of those illegitimate children who didn't ask to be brought
into this world (children probably living in poverty conditions
with only one parent)? What about the emotional suffering of
the child who has watched his parents split up and found
himself deprived of one of his parents?
The truth is begetting a child out of wedlock is a crime
against that child, a crime against society, and a crime
against God. Yet it is not treated as such. In fact our
society almost winks at it. It even encourages it by a policy
of picking up the tab for all costs involved, including the
cost of supporting the mother. The cost to society for this
crime, in both dollars and human suffering, is greater than for
many other crimes. Yet the crime goes unpunished. Our society
speaks continually of freedoms and rights and never speaks of
responsibilities and obligations. Should not a grave
responsibility be regarded as accompanying any sexual
intercourse --- namely the responsibility of supporting and
rearing any child that is produced? Should not any child have
legitimate rights and claims against both of his parents?
Should it not be a serious crime to beget any child you cannot
support? Is allowing adults to engage in gay lives of
frivolity, producing children recklessly, and then not
supporting them, right? Is not a strong sense of duty,
responsibility and obligation a key element in the mental
outlook of any just and healthy society?
Should there not be punishment for people who beget children
and then not support them? What kind of punishment? How about
sterilization or a few years of hard labor?
Should not things that glamorize or encourage sexual immorality
in a society be banned? What about all of the licentious,
lustful advertising that we see all around us? What about all
of the books, magazines and movies that glamorize immorality?
Should not glamorization of crime also be a crime?
Dec 1991
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